Tuesday, December 31, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Financial update and celebration of ministry partnership

This last February a friend in ministry told me that in their organization it was a given that 50+ year olds couldn't raise ministry support. I couldn't disagree, though at the time I was celebrating the addition of several new ministry partners to our team in the previous year, a team that had been largely unrefreshed for more than a decade. At the least, we can agree that ministry funding is always difficult, and that harder economic times, older age, and changing ministry assignments all tend to make it harder.

Even when we were in our 30s, living in Colorado Springs for 5 years before we went to Taiwan for what turned out to be about 15 years there, we thought raising funds for ministry based here was quite the challenge. At that time we had no funding from Colorado and what we do have now developed when we left for Taiwan. But I reminisce, like people in their 50s (57 for me now) tend to do!

Here's the update: As of right now, TEAM has received $78,912 this year for our ministry funding. Last year, TEAM received $87,235. That is about a 10% drop. It still works out to about $6500 a month for ministry expenses, including administration, travel, health insurance, retirement, and living allowance. It is a significant amount and we are extremely grateful. In fact, most of the time we don't feel worthy of this trust and partnership that we are receiving. We also know that there are many who will read this who would just love to have the same opportunities for life and ministry that we have enjoyed this year because of your trust and partnership. We are incredibly grateful.

Over the years, and especially more recently, some of you who have been long term ministry partners have stopped contributing to our ministry. Sometimes people let us know, but mostly partners just feel led to lower their contributions or make them elsewhere. Sometimes we feel disappointed, but mostly we understand, and more than anything, we are grateful. In some cases you have partnered with us for more than 20 years, spanning births, deaths, marriages, and the launching of children, job changes and retirements, and reversals as well as successes in all our lives. What an awesome thing to be partners for so long! Thank you so much for what you have invested in ministry, whether ours or so many others, whether now, in the near past, or even when we were just starting out with our adorable babies and curly hair. All of that has made a huge difference and been part of our ability to focus on ministry year by year.

And we are still eating plenty of bread, righteous or not! (Loose allusion to one of the psalms.) In fact, the homemade bread that we started making when we left for Taiwan in 1996 is still baking today--latest loaf due out in 38 minutes. Thank you for sharing your "bread" with us, and for allowing us to share our "bread" with others on your behalf and in Jesus name. Come and break bread with us soon!

I know that as the end of year approaches many ministries are updating us about their financial needs, and I want you to know about our situation also. We do continue to invite your ministry partnership with us, and we are grateful for what you have done already. Thank you so much.

Frequently (unasked!) questions:
1) Do we need ministry support? Yes, we do.
2) Are we still receiving ministry support? Yes, we are.
3) Are our personal finances in order? Yes, they are.
4) Is our ministry support dropping? Yes, it is.
5) Have we spent more than has come in? No, we haven't.
6) Are we worried? No, we are not.
7) Would we like your help? Yes, we would.
8) Are there other ministries that might need our help even more? Yes, there are. In fact, if you're looking for projects or people to sponsor, let us know what you're looking for--we know about a lot of ministry opportunities, within TEAM and beyond.
9) How do we feel when we think about our ministry finances? Mostly very grateful, amazed that we have now been in ministry most of our adult lives, and wondering what the future yet holds. Also a little unworthy, wondering if what we do is really that valuable or if we are doing enough. We don't feel like special people or "entitled" to what we have received, just thankful to be part of the body, loved by brothers and sisters, and a bit surprised to find ourselves getting older so persistently!
10) What does TEAM do if we don't have enough ministry funding? Ordinarily they wouldn't let us leave for an international assignment without demonstrated funding, but then we're not currently assigned internationally :-) So if our ministry accounts run dry, they send us less money. (First they warn us this is coming and ask us what we are doing about it!) 

May you have great wisdom as you decide what to do with whatever resources God has entrusted to you, and please ask for the same for us. Thank you once again for your partnership in ministry. We know we aren't perfect or even particularly wonderful partners, but we are happy we have been able to do all that we have from the first day until now, and we know that your partnership has been essential the whole time.

Christmas love and best wishes for the coming new year, Steve and Laura

PS TEAM has updated it's website this year, now at TEAM.org, and that's a great place to go if you want to contribute to our ministry. (There is a tab at the top that says "GIVE.") You can also just send a check to TEAM at the address below with a note that you want to partner in our ministry.

Steve and Laura Spinella
street: 1930 Springcrest Rd, CO Springs 80920
mail: 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
Steve cell 719.355.4809, Laura cell 832.755.4261
TEAM, PO Box 969, Wheaton, IL 60187, 800 343-3144
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Friday, December 27, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Bibles for Christmas

If I were going to do an advertisement, it might be for reading the Bible. That has to be one of the things I believe matters more than most in this world.

Olive Tree Bible Study App is the one we currently use. And this is a great time to get it.

Laura and I have one account, so we have access to all the same Bibles. This also means that if she makes highlights or notes I see them. (I don't make highlights or notes in the text as I don't like to be distracted from the text itself--or because I'm lazy, you can choose.)

You can get several bibles for free all the time, now including the KJV, ASV, ESV and the NET bible (with limited notes). Right now you can also get the NASB for free (through the weekend). 

Right now you can also get several popular (English) translations for about $5.

-The NIV is probably the most standard translation used these days. It is readable and accurate, but written in standard modern English. There are actually a number of editions that update language to current usage, more or less.
-The NLT won the hearts of our generation by using ordinary language that most anyone can understand. Ken Taylor originally wrote it for his children (he had 9!) who were not understanding and tuning out during daily Bible reading times. Since it's been sharpened and edited by a large team.
-The Message was Eugene Peterson's effort to be more memorable. It uses figures of speech that the original text never imagined, but lots of my friends find it drives points home that otherwise they might miss. Vance (shout out!), I know you love it and memorize it all the time.
I don't think you can go wrong paying for any (or all) of these if you have the money at the moment.
-One more I use a lot is the NET Bible with full translation notes. (This varies a little between different books, since it was the efforts of a large team, but it includes more than 64k notes.) I find these translation notes help me with questions of...translation, which matters to me since the Bible was not written originally in English. (You already knew that, didn't you?!) I do also have a (free) Hebrew OT and a (free) Greek NT on my phone as well, but if you need these, you really don't need my comments about translations, do you?! We also have a free Chinese translation, a free Spanish translation, and a few other resources in our account.

This app downloads whatever resources from your account you want on any or all of your devices including your desktop or laptop, and keeps your single account synced between your various devices. This is important to me because I do not have a data plan on my phone and also because it makes the app much more responsive (and always available) than looking things up across the net. 

One downside is that they like to send you emails pushing lots of resources you could add to your account, many of which are not at all free. I should be clear that I use this to read the Bible and look up texts, not to hold my library.

Steve

PS We had a great family Christmas, made unique and crazy because Laura's dad is at a rehab facility following knee surgery with memory complications, a trip to Breckenridge that ended in a snowstorm and a traffic jam, and the current Spinella configuration of two boomers and five millenials, Laura's dad and mom, and Laura's sister's family from Houston also in town with it's own configuration of 8 people.

Steve and Laura Spinella
street: 1930 Springcrest Rd, CO Springs 80920
mail: 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
Steve cell 719.355.4809, Laura cell 832.755.4261
TEAM, PO Box 969, Wheaton, IL 60187, 800 343-3144
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Tuesday, December 24, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Save the Date for Sarah and John's Wedding!

Hi, I'm Sarah, Steve and Laura's daughter.  I know you've heard about me before because I get my dad's email updates too.  I'm almost 26, and in my final year of graduate classes before a year-long internship.  I hope to graduate in August 2015 with a PhD in Counseling Psychology from Texas A&M.

I met John Forcey in March 2012.  John is 28, and grew up in Mexico as part of a ministry family.  He majored in Biblical Studies at Grace College, and then studied philosophy first at Talbot (part of Biola), and then at Texas A&M.  He hopes to graduate in 2017 with a PhD in Philosophy and a Master's in Higher Education from Texas A&M.

We (John & Sarah) are getting married!  We would like to invite you to celebrate with us.

We will be getting married June 28, 2014 in Colorado Springs!

If you would like to celebrate with us, please click on the link below so we can send you an invitation.  As a bonus, you will get a link to our wedding website and proposal video!


Love, John and Sarah

P.S. We apologize if you get this message multiple times in our efforts to include everyone.  You only need to respond to the poll once.


Made from leaves outside with love by John and Sarah.

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Friday, November 22, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Suppose it was...unconditional

Here in Colorado we're having a winter storm. Snow and ice have come with temperatures down to 5 degrees (-15 Celsius). We have an adult son who drives our cars--love you, Robert! So what would you do when he decides to get together with friends on the coldest, iciest night so far?

Laura stated unconditionally she wouldn't go out on a night like this. Bob and Martha (her parents) weren't here, but we know they would agree. Steve told stories about storms and car accidents he has had. Bottom line--Robert still wanted to go. "Was the offer to drive the car a conditional one?" Apparently it was unconditional--at least in this case. Robert appears to have returned home as well--the car is parked out front and I hear the shower running this morning.

This got me thinking about unconditional. (It's the internet age, and apparently I can now use words as almost any part of speech.) I facilitate a lot of groups--how open are my open questions? There are at least a few conditions, even if unspoken. I know because these things have come up. For instance, you aren't allowed to attack someone else in the group, physically or verbally--even is that is your authentic reaction! Also, you aren't allowed to talk forever--eventually someone will stop you!

I also get a lot of ads. Now that I'm back in the US, I can usually read them (unless the print is too small!) When I get an unconditional offer--I don't believe it. Sometimes I fall for things without spotting "the catch." Recently I bought new gear shifters for my bike on Ebay--what came was a large collection of tiny parts--probably complete, that fit inside gear shifters I don't even have. When they first arrived, I thought they were just disassembled gear shifters, but that wasn't even true. (Free to the first reader who asks!) Apparently the sale was...unconditional, but the return policy certainly wasn't.

So when 1 John says, "we love because he first loved us," that's conditional. First love, that's something else. "While we were yet sinners, [the firstborn of all creation] died for the ungodly." He should have gotten a contract: I'll die if you'll repent. There was no contract, it was...unconditional.

One of my friends said it this way, "I don't like doing things where I don't get good results and no one appreciates me." That caught my attention. I can handle one or the other, but both? That's pretty tough.

One of my current assignments is reviewing readiness assessments for people who want to do international ministry with our org. To put it another way, we're assessing condition. That's hard to do. Who likes to hear--or say--that someone is not in good enough condition to take an international ministry assignment they want?

Another assignment I have is caring for people who are facing a challenge that interferes with their international ministry--sometimes everyone agrees, sometimes the person or others involved is skeptical.

In both these cases, my calling is to make my love unconditional, and to seek the gentle truth--the truth, which we all need from the almighty and each other, expressed with gentleness and unconditional love. I don't find this easy.

And even though traffic and life in general is far less crowded and congested here than it was in Taiwan, I don't find it easy to be kind and generous unconditionally. I don't even find it easy to love my family unconditionally, much less friends, coworkers, neighbors, and strangers.

What conditions are you entitled to? What is something you want to be...unconditional from others? What would it mean to you to be more...unconditional?

In him who keeps us...unconditionally, Steve and Laura

PS This year I'm staying home from mental health and missions, the conference I've gone to so many years at this time. This saves some money and travel. I've had steady tinnitis (ringing of the ears) for a number of months now, and don't know if it's...unconditional! I'd like to be relieved of it if that were possible.

Steve and Laura Spinella
street: 1930 Springcrest Rd, CO Springs 80920
mail: 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
Steve cell 719.355.4809, Laura cell 832.755.4261
TEAM, PO Box 969, Wheaton, IL 60187, 800 343-3144
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Sunday, September 22, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Excuses and plans, but first the straight scoop

Laura (the straight scoop): 
You haven't heard from us for a while....Steve continues his work with Team on some projects that involve video and conference calls with people in faraway places, as well as some research and writing. There are more projects "in the hopper" and we are waiting to see how they develop.  

As for me, in the absence of ministry trips, i have had the opportunity to spend more time with my international women friends here in Colorado Springs...hiking, eating, participating in events together. I need wisdom to know how to speak life-giving truth into their lives! Starting this week our home will be hosting a small group study....we are excited to listen respectfully to each other, share what matters most to each of us, and seek truth together!  

I have also been very much in the mode of seeking new wisdom for my own life at this stage!  On the one hand i find myself still busy as a homemaker.  My parents live around the corner and i want to spend time each week with them.  I always like to be available to my kids.  In late July I flew down to College Station to  help Sarah with her move from an apartment into a dormitory apartment on the A&M campus.  Wedding planning with Sarah also looms on the horizon. In early November we hope to host our niece from Spain who will be introducing to us her husband and very cute baby.  We also look forward to hosting two of our "Taiwan nieces" at Thanksgiving.  I often find myself stretched in many directions, and still wanting to fit in more.

One of the extra things i will be fitting in this month is a week-long course called "Developing a Discerning Heart" that is taught by a ministry called Entrust. I have been spending quite a bit of time over the past few weeks preparing the homework for this class, and am hoping for new insights for myself and the ability to better help others.

If you've actually read this far, thanks so much for caring! Please continue to remember us!  We love hearing news from all of you...and we especially love getting to see you!  Please let us know if you are in our area and have time for a visit.

Steve (musing): Thanks, Laura, for adding the "straight scoop" above after you read my musings below! 

Do you find that the longer you put something off, the more excuses you can think of to delay it?

I certainly do. I'm afraid on matters like this my mind is smarter than it is wise. When I got up over two hours ago (6 hours now, after breakfast, Laura's contribution, and another round of edits,) I told Laura I was going to write this update. That was just the latest two hours I've been able to put it off, there have been many before that. Can you remember a time when you found yourself smarter than you were wise?

My last international trip ended in May. Our last ministry trip ended in July. In between we were asked to step back from a ministry responsibility we'd been working on for over a year after a change in leadership in that area. I didn't like that, by the way :-). I'm sure that has made ministry updates harder to write.

In late August the person I report to (also named Steve!) came out to see Laura and I for a few days, and we put together some proposals, identified some priorities, walked in the mountains, and watched the sun rise in Garden of the Gods. Good stuff. Nothing quite ready for a great email update.

One thing excuses and plans have in common is that they both happen inside our heads. Real life can be more boring, more disappointing, more complicated, and more confusing. Because of my idealism and my great imagination, I often find reality more complicated, less glorious, and sometimes even less interesting. Yet it is between our head and our hands and feet that the practice of life takes place. 

My living father keeps calling me back to this practice. The 139th psalm weaves a picture of being known more intimately than it is possible to escape. "Where can I flee from his presence?" Do you ever ask that question, like me and that author? Asking that question is like chasing after the wind, as in the classic Jonah story.

We're still having good conversations with valuable people, some on skype or google hangout, more in the kitchen, Panera, room x at our local gathering place, or, preferably, on some hiking trail. One of the best recent times for me was backpacking with my son Joey in Lost Creek wilderness. We waited an extra day to start because of the rain and my cold virus, but it was a first for us together, and the first time I've gone backpacking in Colorado since age 19! Laura, meanwhile, walked more than twice as far with a group of her "international friends" from International Women's Connection. This has become a big part of our lives, including on "(Chinese) moon festival" and "(Korean) thanksgiving" this week, which we celebrated with crabs and poetry for the first time.

So thanks again for caring about us, and keeping us in your thoughts and intercession, ...just as we are!

Yours in the one who keeps us, Steve and Laura

PS On a personal note, we also have a building permit to finish our (unfinished) basement. We're hoping this will be another good tool for real life and ministry, but right now...it's just a plan! Regarding the horrific flooding that has been in the news, we are also deeply grieved by the losses, but personally we're okay.

Steve and Laura Spinella
street: 1930 Springcrest Rd, CO Springs 80920
mail: 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
Steve cell 719.355.4809, Laura cell 832.755.4261
TEAM, PO Box 969, Wheaton, IL 60187, 800 343-3144
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Friday, July 26, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Once we only had one daughter, now we'll have three sons...and two daughters

That's right, I'm slow to get the news out--it's already on facebook, people are finding out at conferences in Taiwan (shout out to TMF!), and Sarah did a much better job of rolling out the news than her dad, for sure.

Still, you might not yet know that the big date is June 28, 2014, the place is Colorado Springs, and there's room for you at the wedding. And has anyone actually told you what Sarah's parents think of John Forcey, this 27 y.o. wunderkind who somehow has convinced not only Sarah herself, but also Sarah's parents to endorse this major life change? I thought not...

Sarah's mom has told me that John has won her heart (Laura's, I mean here) because of the tender and patient way in which he cares for Sarah, listening well to her, sharing his own heart in an authentic way, and responding attentively. 

Her brothers were a little concerned that John might not be able to handle this smart, opinionated older sister, [who once said, "I'm the head hog," leading to a rather pointed, and insightful, short story about three hedge hogs (and how they grew...) by brother Robert.] They have been reassured on this point.

I gave my consent (Kirk, father of Joey's wife Laura, I feel your pain!) not only because John has captured Sarah's deepest affections and shares her deep faith, but also because we have room for another adult son, shared though he is, and I, too, really enjoy John's thoughtful approach to a sincere and meaningful life.

For those wondering, John is a philosophy phd student at Texas A&M, who grew up in the US and Mexico, with parents now in Pennsylvania and a sister in Seattle. He and Sarah share a simple (read "frugal") approach to life, and that's probably a good thing, what with two phd students, one in philosophy and one in psychology.

And for those wondering, the ring is beautiful (classic and simple), and John proposed on one of their favorite bike rides, complete with a video record of their favorite spots including the one where he kneeled and offered the ring. They had just celebrated a year of dating, and were anticipating joining our family at Sarah's cousin's wedding in Abilene, Texas, where the word spread quite quickly.

I didn't check with Sarah before I sent this out, and Sarah's mom is in College Station with Sarah right now, helping her move into TAMU residential housing (a small apartment of her own, first time she has lived alone) for her new assistantship as a Residence Director (or something like that, she's a resource to the floor leaders and the women in a girl's dorm on campus.) So I am solely responsible for any errors here and corrections may be coming.

Yours in him who keeps, Steve and Laura

PS If you want to see pictures, find Sarah Spinella (sarspin@gmail.com) on Facebook! If you make plans to come, please let us know so we can be sure you get an official invitation, too. And if you want to stick around and visit us, my guess is that we'll be less distracted after June 28 :-)

PPS Ministry wise, we've been mainly hanging in Colorado this summer after a lot of travel in the spring right through the end of May, but we did get back to Illinois for a week of REAP--where TEAM gathers staff from their international assignments some face time in the midst of their busy home assignments. It was a great time of building relationships, coming alongside, and going deeper. We went straight from there to Abilene, TX, where we got the good news above. Please lift us up as we ask what God has in mind for the coming months, both in terms of travel and other ministry.

PPPS (Actually, I don't know if there is such a thing!)  Our son and other daughter Joey and Laura Spinella are doing well in Austin, and will celebrate their first Anniversary Sunday. Our other son Robert is working here in Colorado and we like having him around!

Steve and Laura Spinella
street: 1930 Springcrest Rd, CO Springs 80920
mail: 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
Steve cell 719.355.4809, Laura cell 832.755.4261
TEAM, PO Box 969, Wheaton, IL 60187, 800 343-3144
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Thursday, June 13, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Observations on the journey, including trauma and loss

I got back from my trip to one of the countries where more people make do with less than almost any other place, torn by chaos and conflict.  I find that this part of the world is on many of our minds and hearts, for I have gotten many questions and much interest since my return. I also got to visit the ruins of Balkh!

On a personal note, I faced more trouble from sickness and difficulty relating than trauma or violence, but I feel that it was worth the risks and the challenges. I got to journey together for a time with brothers and sisters who, by choice, leave behind family, friends, and relative comfort and security in order to care for and suffer with people they love.

Bearing in mind that I only visited for a short while, don't speak the local languages, and only went because I was invited by people who have stayed much longer and invested deeply in languages and relationships, here are some impressions:

1) The history of conflict upon conflict has brought much heartache, loss, destruction, and dislocation. People long for peace, prosperity, and favor with people and powers in this world and beyond.

2) Within this context, there is also hope and change, reflected by new construction, urbanization, new openness, and new patterns of life. While there is much uncertainty and we don't know what the future holds, there is room for hope and reason to pursue all that is good with both caution and courage.

3) People who willingly contribute their time, their energy, their health, and perhaps even their lives, can make a tremendous contribution in situations like this, but it comes at a great price, suffering with those who suffer, enduring hardships and often trauma (including the presence of death or fear of it), and being humbled by misunderstandings, challenges, and sometimes opposition.

4) Such desperate times do not take away the ordinary challenges of life, but add to them. There are still traffic accidents, cancers, moral failures, toxic secrets, and every other sort of challenge right down to ordinary misunderstandings and misimpressions, just less available energy and resources to address them (and perhaps shorter tempers and more generalized stress and anxiety.)

Yesterday we were sobered by a very near reminder, now called the Black Forest Fire. We are not in personal danger.  However some close friends are staying upstairs as I write, having watched their house in flames on the news. Yesterday they left home for a meeting together and when they heard about the fire, it was already too late to return. The images (http://denver.cbslocal.com/video/8980930-at-least-10-homes-burn-in-black-forest-fire/) left little hope that anything they did not happen to have in their car will be left to salvage. As we walked last night and looked at the smoke clouds, our friend said, "That's my stuff in that cloud of smoke and ash."

They have a hope that goes beyond this life, but the waves of grief will be coming for a long time all the same.

Both of these experiences, on the far side of the world and close to home, leave us with a sober awareness. We can sometimes walk with each other through the valley of the shadow of death, but we cannot take away fear and loss. It is important that we make good choices in our journeys, but we are still vulnerable, and those who suffer can only face the present, and this is best done and perhaps only possible because of the one who journeys with us.

"Even when I must walk through the darkest valley, I fear no danger, for you are with me; your rod and your staff reassure me."

.With love from just southwest of the Black Forest fire, Steve and Laura

PS Are you or would you like to be one of those people I described in the second paragraph? If so, let us know, we would love to help you in your journey!

Steve 7193554809, Laura 8327554261, 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920, TEAM.org





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Wednesday, May 08, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Things that separate and things that join

This is the first international trip that I've taken in a while without Laura. She could have come part way, but one of the places I'm headed is in the news all the time and the US is just getting ready to pull out units that have been there for quite a while, only to face a situation that remains chaotic at best, and tragic all too often.

Going someplace like that (without Laura!) has reminded us of how our choices often separate us from others. We live in a culture where choice is good, and I've even used the phrase that being well-to-do means having choices where others don't. (I am learning it also means having a stewardship of resources that have little value unless they are used, so deciding when to use and when to hold becomes a huge challenge.)

Lots of people facing poverty or danger would gladly step away if they could. For others, just being around folks like this can be painful in itself. We are called to mourn with those who mourn, but facing problems that don't "fix" can be wearying for all of us, no matter what our motives.

All the same, for many people it is the personal, face to face, heart language connection that matters more than some message from far away, whether that distance is physical, emotional, or even cultural and linguistic. It is for that reason that people go to show love face to face. In a small way, it is also for that face to face connection that I go to show love to such people face to face, even if I have to leave Laura behind for a few weeks, suffer through jet lag, spend money, not be at my best, and other such vagaries.

So keep us in your thoughts and intercession, and also think of those who, just because they were born in a chaotic, tough environment that most of us would rather avoid, may not receive face to face loving care unless people who have the choice spend some of their funds, emotional capital, relational energies, and so on in order to be in that chaotic, tough environment alongside them, no matter how hard or frustrating it might be.

With love in the one who keeps us, Steve and Laura

PS If you think of it, give a shout out to Laura, who will be spending this mother's day which is also her birthday, without me. This trip will be about three weeks.

Steve and Laura Spinella
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mail: 9685 Otero Ave, Colorado Springs, CO 80920
Steve cell 719.355.4809, Laura cell 832.755.4261
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Thursday, March 28, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Fwd: original thanksgiving picture

Easter is coming, and we're coming back to the US (Texas, actually) just in time to enjoy it with friends, family, and fellowship. I thought I'd take this occasion to send out a picture I just found in my overstuffed inbox from last Thanksgiving, with Laura's parents, two of our nieces, and our family, including Sarah, Robby, Joey, and Joey's wife Laura (married last summer, remember?!)

I won't list off who is who, but I bet you either know or can guess pretty well if you want. The nieces are Claire and Natalie (front right) Drevets, who attend St Olaf and Wheaton respectively with their family in Taichung, a few miles from where we used to live, where their dad is the high school chaplain for Mca.org.tw.

We are writing from Singapore, hoping to have a peaceful trip back to the US in a few hours. We have had a delightful time doing what we do--hanging with people, sharing in the journey, listening and loving as best we can.

Love, hope, and faith, not necessarily in that order, to all of you! Steve and Laura

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Saturday, March 16, 2013

[TEAMspinella] Sleep in transition

Our last trip was full of good time with good people in one of the most international places I've ever been. Literally only about 12% of the people living in this country are citizens, the rest all being guest workers from countries all over the world. No wonder this country has one of the world's busiest international airports. Staying at a guest house for a few days near the airport, we saw planes flying over us every two minutes for most of the day and heard them for most of the night. (Planes headed to and from North America tend to arrive here after most of us go to bed local time and take off between 12 midnight and 3am! That's one reason it was handy to stay a few days ten minutes from the airport.)

Today we leave again for another very international place--perhaps more international ministry workers gather in Thailand over the course of a year than in any other country. It's a bit mind boggling. Thailand offers low cost hosting, easy or no visitors visas, air routes in every direction, and relative proximity to the world's most concentrated people zones. We'll spend some time there with a few people who are gathering for a consultation on counseling in the Chinese world, then we'll travel north to visit friends in one of those cities in the southwestern part of a country about the same size as the US geographically, but with 4 or 5 times as many people. Like the US's southwest, this province is home to many minority people groups, the official count is 53, I think!

In many ways, we're finding that spring is the best travel season for us, which also makes it challenging to know how much to travel and where to go. "Fall" is shorter than "spring" in most people's practical calendars, split by the winter holidays, which in the US are mainly Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year. "Summer" for internationals these days is that time when school schedules allow for maximal travel, and internationals do travel, as well as welcome visitors who are coming to them. So spring for us this year will include three international trips.

With this kind of schedule, recovery and sleep management are really important. So far we've been able to stay healthy. Staying asleep through the night--not so easy! Staying in sync with each other--also not so easy. (And I've been caught sleeping when I should have been awake too!)

Getting good sleep has much in common with other challenges, physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual. (Don't most challenges ultimately touch all four, even if they wave the flag of one or two?) For instance, ...
1) Without [sleep], life pretty much falls apart. 
2) [Sleep] requires balance, you can't do it all the time, but you can't live without it.
3) [Sleep] affects not only us, but everyone around us, but we can't do it for each other.
4) Everyone has their own ideas about how much [sleep] is enough, how it is best to do it, and what will help you address [sleep] problems.
5) The word says the Master gives [sleep] to those he loves.

If sleep isn't a challenge for you, what else might be your challenge? If you put that in the above list instead of [sleep], do the 5 points make sense? What would you add (or take away) from this list of 5? (We'd love to hear from you!)

Yours in him who keeps us,

Steve and Laura

PS If you've read this far, I can't resist telling a jet lag story.... An experienced speaker came out to Taiwan from the US and the first night told us he never had any problem with jet lag. I asked if he'd traveled a lot and he said, oh yes, he'd traveled all over the US and also made several trips to South America. Being the "good" hosts, we said nothing at the time, but have laughed since as we remember his disappearances on the second and third evenings. I can definitely identify with having been confident and confidently mistaken, especially when dealing with unfamiliar things. [For lo, jet lag is a problem for people who cross many time zones quickly, and it's effects often catch up with you after a couple days...]

Steve and Laura Spinella
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